Saturday 31 May 2014

#India- Militant Durga Vahini Camp In India Is Training Young Women To Hate Themselves And Accept Their Weakness #WTFnews

Posted by :kamayani bali mahabal On : May 28, 2014an you really hide your natural weakness or character as a woman?”posted on May 26, 2014, at 1:39 a.m.

Tasneem NashrullaBuzzFeed Staff
  

The  is the women’s wing of a Hindu nationalist organization in India — the Vishwa Hindu Parishad. The militaristic camp aims to empower young women to fight for the Hindu nationalist cause and to espouse the traditional roles of women.

The Durga Vahini is the women's wing of a Hindu nationalist organization in India — the Vishwa Hindu Parishad. The militaristic camp aims to empower young women to fight for the Hindu nationalist cause and to espouse the traditional roles of women.

A clip from the film The World Before Her shows how young women at the camp are brainwashed into believing they are naturally weak and need to be tamed. (WARNING: The video contains disturbing scenes towards the end.)

At the camp, women between the ages of 18 and 35 are trained in self-defense to combat those who go against their religious ideals. They are also taught to adhere to the idea of a male-dominated society and to reclaim their roles as wives and mothers.

At the camp, women between the ages of 18 and 35 are trained in self-defense to combat those who go against their religious ideals. They are also taught to adhere to the idea of a male-dominated society and to reclaim their roles as wives and mothers.
One of their aims, as listed on their website, is to stop religious conversions by “cautioning our sisters of the conspiracies of alien faiths like Islam and Christianity.”
Women who “forsake their normal female tenderness and affinity” and “protect their brothers” are considered role models.


The World Before Her is a documentary film that highlights two distinct groups of Indian women: beauty pageant contestants, and militant Hindu fundamentalists.
It won the best documentary feature at the Tribeca Film Festival in 2012 and releases in India on June 6.

In the clip, a social worker, Aparnatai Ramtirthakar, talks to the camp’s girls about their “duties as a woman.”

In the clip, a social worker, Aparnatai Ramtirthakar, talks to the camp's girls about their "duties as a woman."

She tells them that women should be married by the age of 18 because “by the time they’re 25, they’ll become so strong-willed, you won’t be able to tame them.”

She tells them that women should be married by the age of 18 because "by the time they're 25, they'll become so strong-willed, you won't be able to tame them."

She emphasizes that girls should never leave their homes, and blames Westernization for women wanting an education and a career.

She emphasizes that girls should never leave their homes, and blames Westernization for women wanting an education and a career.
“Is it really necessary for you to leave your homes, just for your ego and go chasing you career? Have we become so Westernized?”

She talks about how her mother slapped her for looking at herself in the mirror.

She talks about how her mother slapped her for looking at herself in the mirror.
The Durga Vahini camps focus on “de-feminizing” and desexualizing the female body, while blaming Westernization and Islam for increased sexual violence against women.

While dismissing gender equality, the social worker asks the girls, “Can you really hide your natural weakness or character as a woman?”

While dismissing gender equality, the social worker asks the girls, "Can you really hide your natural weakness or character as a woman?"

The clip then ends with disturbing scenes from a 2009 incident where members of a Hindu extremist group attacked women for drinking alochol at a bar in south India.

The clip then ends with disturbing scenes from a 2009 incident where members of a Hindu extremist group attacked women for drinking alochol at a bar in south India.

In this FirstPost interview, director Nisha Pahuja discussed the most disturbing part of filming at the camp.

“You know, more than the physical training the girls at the Durga Vahini camp are given, it’s the brainwashing and the blood curdling chants they are taught that shocked and depressed me. On the bus ride they take en route to their parade, they learned a few phrases that I simply refused to include in the film. Those were the sorts of moments that were hugely trying for me and my crew as well. We saw how easy it was to manipulate young minds.”

Read more here – http://www.buzzfeed.com/tasneemnashrulla/a-militant-hindu-camp-in-india-is-training-young-women-to-ha?sub=3279126_3012608
 http://www.kractivist.org/india-militant-durga-vahini-camp-in-india-is-training-young-women-to-hate-themselves-and-accept-their-weakness-wtfnews/


Tuesday 20 May 2014

14 May 2014 Last updated at 00:14 Share this pagePrint ShareFacebookTwitter The 10-year-old who offered money to India's central bank By Geeta Pandey BBC News, Delhi

Laila Alva with the $20 note
Last September, when the Indian government was struggling to control the rupee's massive slide against the dollar, a worried 10-year-old schoolgirl sent a $20 (£12) bill to the governor of the country's central bank offering to help the economy.
Raghuram Rajan took over as the governor of the Reserve Bank of India (RBI) on 4 September 2013 - the following day Laila Indira Alva sent him a letter.
"I have heard about the crisis our economy is facing on the news. I have also heard about the fall of the rupee with respect to the dollar," she wrote.

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I knew the economy was weak because of inflation and corruption”
Laila Alva
Laila, who lives in Gurgaon, an affluent Delhi suburb, is not someone who usually spends time worrying about the economy - like most 10-year-olds, she likes playing with friends and other activities such as reading, singing, playing the guitar, swimming and athletics.
But last summer, bad news about the economy made the headlines every day - the manufacturing sector had slowed down, the rupee was continuously sliding against the dollar and India's current account deficit was growing wider by the day.
As her parents take several daily newspapers, Laila saw all these stories of impending doom and grew alarmed.
"I knew the economy was weak because of inflation and corruption. I read about it in the newspapers and I heard my parents talk about it at dinner and I heard about it on the news. That's the only thing everyone was talking about."
Laila's letter to Raghuram Rajan
Laila was worried that "people won't have enough money to make a living and everyone will suffer and everyone will become poor," she says.
Her mother Pria Somaiah Alva says she and her husband often talk to Laila and her 13-year-old brother about what's in the news.

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I want people to come to India and not to think that it's corrupt and a dump!”
Laila Alva
"Last September, we were sitting around the table, my husband and I were discussing the dollar rate. And Mr Rajan was in the news, he was going to take over as the bank's governor so somewhere how the bank controls the economy came up," she says.
The next day, after returning from school, Laila asked her mother if she could write a letter to the RBI governor because "maybe he can help the economy".
"I said 'go ahead, you're a kid, you can do what you want'," Pria says.
"Dr Raghuram Rajan, please bring in some new ideas that will improve our economy. I want people to come to India and not to think that it's corrupt and a dump!" Laila wrote in the letter which has recently been published in her school magazine.
Laila Alva reads her letter to the bank's governor
She also decided to include a $20 bill her parents had given her during a family holiday in Israel a year ago because she thought "the country needs it more than I do".
"Many people say it starts with little and then it becomes big, so I thought that my $20 would be a little. But I thought if people had the right thought in their minds, then they could make it big. I thought that everyone will contribute a little bit to help our economy and India will progress," says Laila.
Raghuram Rajan's letter to Laila
About 10 days later, an official looking envelope arrived, addressed to Laila. She was shocked to discover that it was from the bank governor himself.
"I am deeply touched by your kind gesture," he wrote. "I am aware this is a challenging time for the country and I have no doubt the economy will emerge stronger."
The envelope also carried the $20 bill she had sent.
"I am returning the $20 note you had sent with the assurance that we have adequate foreign exchange reserves in RBI to manage the situation," Rajan wrote and invited her to visit him next time she was in Mumbai.
Laila says she was "really surprised" by the response.
"I thought it was common to write a letter to the RBI governor, I thought he won't really read it and he'll just ask someone else to write back."
Laila was not happy to get her money back though and thought that "it was mean of him not to take it," she says. But her parents explained that "there are different ways in which one can help one's country".
In November, when Laila's father went to Mumbai on business, she went along with him to meet Rajan.
Laila Alva with the governor of the Reserve Bank of India
"She was very happy, very impressed with the RBI building. She visited the coin museum and returned laden with comics which simplify money, even for adults. But her first reaction was - Mama, he's very tall," says Pria.
"He is very tall," insists Laila. "There's a picture of both of us and he's extremely tall, he's like a giant."
At her meeting with Rajan, she asked him questions like "why can't the RBI print more money for everyone so that people aren't poor? He told me that it will lead to inflation and then he explained the whole concept".
On the wall behind his desk, there were pictures of past RBI governors, but "there was no lady governor so I was shocked and I asked him why? He said maybe you can become one some day".
So is that what she wants to do when she grows up? "Maybe, but I want to be a photographer first and then an author and then a singer, maybe someday work to become the governor of the RBI," she says.
At present she is not too concerned about the economy. "Last year it was 70 rupees to $1, but now Mr Rajan has brought it down to 60."
And about the $20 bill, Laila admits that at one point she thought about changing it into rupees and spending it, but now she has changed her mind.
"I think I'll frame it with the letter," she says.
http://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-india-27388104

16वीं लोकसभा के लिए चुनी गईं सर्वाधिक 61 महिलाएं IANS, Last Updated: मई 19, 2014

Maximum number of Women MPs elected in 16th lok sabhaनई दिल्ली: 16वीं लोकसभा में 61 महिला उम्मीदवार जीत कर पहुंची हैं। यह अब तक का सर्वाधिक आंकड़ा है। 543 सदस्यीय लोकसभा में महिला उम्मीदवारों की संख्या 2009 के 58 से ज्यादा है।

पीआरएस लेजिसलेटिव रिसर्च के मुताबिक, "देश के इतिहास में लोकसभा पहुंचने वाली महिलाओं यह सर्वाधिक संख्या है। 2009 में 58 महिलाएं लोकसभा पहुंची थी।"  

प्रमुख महिला उम्मीदवार जो संसद का रास्ता तय करने में कामयाब रहीं उनमें कांग्रेस अध्यक्ष सोनिया गांधी (रायबरेली), भारतीय जनता पार्टी (भाजपा) की वरिष्ठ नेता सुषमा स्वराज (विदिशा), उमा भारती (झांसी), मेनका गांधी (पीलीभीत), पूनम महाजन (मुंबई उत्तर मध्य), किरन खेर (चंडीगढ़), राष्ट्रवादी कांग्रेस पार्टी (राकांपा) की सुप्रिया सुले (बारामती), समाजवादी पार्टी (सपा) नेता डिपल यादव (कन्नौज) हैं।

गौरतलब है इनमें सोनिया, सुषमा, उमा, मेनका, सुप्रिया, डिंपल पहले भी संसद जाने का अवसर पा चुकी हैं, जबकि पूनम, किरन के लिए यह पहला कार्यकाल होगा।

इस चुनाव में कई प्रमुख महिला उम्मीदवारों को हार का सामना करना पड़ा है, जिनमें कांग्रेस नेता अंबिका सोनी (अंबाला), कृष्णा तीरथ (उत्तर पश्चिम दिल्ली), गिरिजा व्यास (चित्तौड़गढ़), लोकसभा अध्यक्ष मीरा कुमार (सासाराम), बिहार की पूर्व मुख्यमंत्री राबड़ी देवी (सारण), उनकी पुत्री मीसा भारती (पाटलिपुत्र) शामिल हैं।

पश्चिम बंगाल से सबसे अधिक 13 महिला सांसद जीत कर संसद के निचले सदन पहुंचने में कामयाब रही, जबकि उत्तर प्रदेश से 11 महिलाओं को इस बार संसद जाने का मौका मिला है।

2009 में 58 महिला संसद पहुंची थी, जबकि 2004 में 45 और 1999 में 49 महिलाएं विजयी हुई थीं। लोकसभा में सबसे कम महिलाएं 1957 में दिखी थी, जब उनकी संख्या सिर्फ 22 थी।
http://khabar.ndtv.com/news/election/maximum-number-of-women-mps-elected-in-16th-lok-sabha-388749

Thursday 15 May 2014

Kidnapped Girls Become Tools of U.S. Imperial Policy in Africa Wed, 05/14/2014


by BAR executive editor Glen Ford

The “humanitarian” U.S. military occupation of Africa has been very successful, thus far. “The Chibok abductions have served the same U.S. foreign policy purposes as Joseph Kony sightings in central Africa.” Imagine: the superpower that financed the genocide of six million in Congo, claims to be a defender of teenage girls and human rights on the continent. If you believe that, then you are probably a member of the Congressional Black Caucus.

Kidnapped Girls Become Tools of U.S. Imperial Policy in Africa

by BAR executive editor Glen Ford

The Boko Haram, like other jihadists, had become more dangerous in a post-Gaddafi Africa – thus justifying a larger military presence for the Americans.”
A chorus of outraged public opinion demands that the “international community” and the Nigerian military “Do something!” about the abduction by Boko Haram of 280 teenage girls. It is difficult to fault the average U.S. consumer of packaged “news” products for knowing next to nothing about what the Nigerian army has actually been “doing” to suppress the Muslim fundamentalist rebels since, as senior columnist Margaret Kimberley pointed out in these pages, last week, the three U.S. broadcast networks carried “not a single television news story about Boko Haram” in all of 2013. (Nor did the misinformation corporations provide a nanosecond of coverage of the bloodshed in the Central African Republic, where thousands died and a million were made homeless by communal fighting over the past year.) But, that doesn’t mean the Nigerian army hasn’t been bombing, strafing, and indiscriminately slaughtering thousands of, mainly, young men in the country’s mostly Muslim north.
The newly aware U.S. public may or may not be screaming for blood, but rivers of blood have already flowed in the region. Those Americans who read – which, presumably, includes First Lady Michelle Obama, who took her husband’s place on radio last weekend to pledge U.S. help in the hunt for the girls – would have learned in the New York Times of the army’s savage offensive near the Niger border, last May and June. In the town of Bosso, the Nigerian army killed hundreds of young men in traditional Muslim garb “Without Asking Who They Are,” according to theNYT headline. “They don’t ask any questions,” said a witness who later fled for his life, like thousands of others. “When they see young men in traditional robes, they shoot them on the spot,” said a student. “They catch many of the others and take them away, and we don’t hear from them again.”
When they see young men in traditional robes, they shoot them on the spot.”
The Times’ Adam Nossiter interviewed many refugees from the army’s “all-out land and air campaign to crush the Boko Haram insurgency.” He reported:
“All spoke of a climate of terror that had pushed them, in the thousands, to flee for miles through the harsh and baking semidesert, sometimes on foot, to Niger. A few blamed Boko Haram — a shadowy, rarely glimpsed presence for most residents — for the violence. But the overwhelming majority blamed the military, saying they had fled their country because of it.”
In just one village, 200 people were killed by the military.
In March of this year, fighters who were assumed to be from Boko Haram attacked a barracks and jail in the northern city of Maiduguri. Hundreds of prisoners fled, but 200 youths were rounded up and made to lie on the ground. A witness told theTimes: “The soldiers made some calls and a few minutes later they started shooting the people on the ground. I counted 198 people killed at that checkpoint.”
All told, according to Amnesty International, more than 600 people were extrajudicially murdered, “most of them unarmed, escaped detainees, around Maiduguri.” An additional 950 prisoners were killed in the first half of 2013 in detention facilities run by Nigeria’s military Joint Task Force, many at the same barracks in Maiduguri. Amnesty International quotes a senior officer in the Nigerian Army, speaking anonymously: “Hundreds have been killed in detention either by shooting them or by suffocation,” he said. “There are times when people are brought out on a daily basis and killed. About five people, on average, are killed nearly on a daily basis.”
Chibok, where the teenage girls were abducted, is 80 miles from Maiduguri, capital of Borno State.
In 2009, when the Boko Haram had not yet been transformed into a fully armed opposition, the military summarily executed their handcuffed leader and killed at least 1,000 accused members in the states of Borno, Yobe, Kano and Bauchi, many of them apparently simply youths from suspect neighborhoods. A gruesome video shows the military at work. “In the video, a number of unarmed men are seen being made to lie down in the road outside a building before they are shot,” Al Jazeera reports in text accompanying the video. “As one man is brought out to face death, one of the officers can be heard urging his colleague to ‘shoot him in the chest not the head – I want his hat.’”
950 prisoners were killed in the first half of 2013 in detention facilities run by Nigeria’s military.”
These are only snapshots of the army’s response to Boko Haram – atrocities that are part of the context of Boko Haram’s ghastly behavior. The military has refused the group’s offer to exchange the kidnapped girls for imprisoned Boko Haram members. (We should not assume that everyone detained as Boko Haram is actually a member – only that all detainees face imminent and arbitrary execution.)
None of the above is meant to tell Boko Haram’s “side” in this grisly story (fundamentalist religious jihadists find no favor at BAR), but to emphasize the Nigerian military’s culpability in the group’s mad trajectory – the same military that many newly-minted “Save Our Girls” activists demand take more decisive action in Borno.
The bush to which the Boko Haram retreated with their captives was already a free-fire zone, where anything that moves is subject to obliteration by government aircraft. Nigerian air forces have now been joined by U.S. surveillance planesoperating out of the new U.S. drone base in neighboring Niger, further entrenching AFRICOM/CIA in the continental landscape. Last week it was announced that, for the first time, AFRICOM troops will train a Nigerian ranger battalion in counterinsurgency warfare.
The Chibok abductions have served the same U.S. foreign policy purposes as Joseph Kony sightings in central Africa, which were conjured-up to justify the permanent stationing of U.S Special Forces in the Democratic Republic of Congo, Uganda, Rwanda, the Central African Republic and South Sudan, in 2011, on humanitarian interventionist grounds. (This past March, the U.S. sent 150 more Special Ops troops to the region, claiming to have again spotted Kony, who is said to be deathly ill, holed up with a small band of followers somewhere in the Central African Republic.) The United States (and France and Britain, plus the rest of NATO, if need be) must maintain a deepening and permanent presence in Africa to defend the continent from…Africans.
When the crowd yells that America “Do something!” somewhere in Africa, the U.S. military is likely to already be there.
AFRICOM troops will train a Nigerian ranger battalion in counterinsurgency warfare.”
Barack Obama certainly needs no encouragement to intervention; his presidency is roughly coterminous with AFRICOM’s founding and explosive expansion. Obama broadened the war against Somalia that was launched by George Bush in partnership with the genocidal Ethiopian regime, in 2006 (an invasion that led directly to what the United Nations called “the worst humanitarian crisis is Africa”). He built on Bill Clinton and George Bush’s legacies in the Congo, where U.S. client states Uganda and Rwanda caused the slaughter of 6 million people since 1996 – the greatest genocide of the post War World II era. He welcomed South Sudan as the world’s newest nation – the culmination of a decades-long project of the U.S., Britain and Israel to dismember Africa’s largest country, but which has now fallen into a bloody chaos, as does everything the U.S. touches, these days.
Most relevant to the plight of Chibok’s young women, Obama led “from behind” NATO’s regime change in Libya, removing the anti-jihadist bulwark Muamar Gaddafi (“We came, we saw, he died,” said Hillary Clinton) and destabilizing the whole Sahelian tier of the continent, all the way down to northern Nigeria. As BAR editor and columnist Ajamu Baraka writes in the current issue, “Boko Haram benefited from the destabilization of various countries across the Sahel following the Libya conflict.” The once-“shadowy” group now sported new weapons and vehicles and was clearly better trained and disciplined. In short, the Boko Haram, like other jihadists, had become more dangerous in a post-Gaddafi Africa – thus justifying a larger military presence for the same Americans and (mainly French) Europeans who had brought these convulsions to the region.
If Obama has his way, it will be a very long war – the better to grow AFRICOM – with some very unsavory allies (from both the Nigerian and American perspectives).
Whatever Obama does to deepen the U.S. presence in Nigeria and the rest of the continent, he can count on the Congressional Black Caucus, including its most “progressive” member, Barbara Lee (D-CA), the only member of the U.S. Congress to vote against the invasion of Afghanistan, in 2001. Lee, along with Reps. Marcia Fudge (D-Ohio), Sheila Jackson Lee (D-Texas) and fellow Californian Karen Bass, who is the ranking member on the House Subcommittee on African, gave cart blanch to Obama to “Do something!” in Nigeria. “And so our first command and demand is to use all resources to bring the terrorist thugs to justice,” they said.
A year and a half ago, when then UN Ambassador Susan Rice’s prospects for promotion to top U.S. diplomat were being torpedoed by the Benghazi controversy, a dozen Black congresspersons scurried to her defense. "We will not allow a brilliant public servant's record to be mugged to cut off her consideration to be secretary of state," said Washington, DC Delegate Eleanor Holmes Norton.
As persons who are presumed to read, Black Caucus members were certainly aware of the messy diplomatic scandal around Rice’s role in suppressing United Nation’s reports on U.S. allies’ Rwanda and Uganda’s genocidal acts against the Congolese people. Of all the high profile politicians from both the corporate parties, Rice – the rabid interventionist – is most intimately implicated in the Congo holocaust, dating back to the policy’s formulation under Clinton. Apparently, that’s not the part of Rice’s record that counts to Delegate Norton and the rest of the Black Caucus. Genocide against Africans does not move them one bit.
So, why are we to believe that they are really so concerned about the girls of Chibok?
http://www.blackagendareport.com/content/kidnapped-girls-become-tools-us-imperial-policy-africa

Sunday 11 May 2014

Woman stripped in public, asked to pay Rs 1 lakh fine

RAIPUR: In an apparent imitation of controversial "khap panchayat", a 35-year-old tribal teacher in Pathalgaon area in Jashpur district of Chhattisgarh was not only beaten and stripped in front of everyone but was also asked to pay Rs 1 lakh or face boycott from village.

The incident took place at Pakargaon of Pathalgaon block on April 19. Despite the fact that the woman had reported the matter naming the accused, police is still waiting to get a detailed complaint on assault and the truth in her being stripped naked to take stringent action.

The teacher has now approached human rights commission and women's commission after alleged police inaction. She was assaulted because her nephew was allegedly in a relationship with a girl of same village. According to woman's statement given to state commission for women, her nephew and the girl belonged to same caste and wished to get married.

While discussions were going on for the wedding, the girl allegedly stayed at woman's home where her nephew Bijendra also lived but after brief counseling the girl left. However, as soon as village sarpanch Nehru Lakda came to know about the girl's stay, he blamed the woman for misleading her and accused her nephew of rape.

When the village gathered at gram sabha of April 19, the girl under pressure denied having any relationship with the boy following which sarpanch, holding the woman responsible, ordered men and women present there to beat her. The victim also complained that she was robbed off her gold ornaments while she was being assaulted.

On accusations of defaming the girl, the woman was asked to pay Rs 1 lakh or leave the village with her family. "No one visits or talks to me. Moreover, I have been struggling for help from police since a fortnight but even after reporting the matter, none of the accused were arrested," she said.

Talking to TOI, secretary of state commission for women Jagrani Ekka said that a letter has been sent to superintendent of police Jitendra Mina asking Jashpur police to register a case under relevant sections. "Following the report submitted by police, commission would intervene for her justice," she said.

According to eyewitnesses, the woman was not stripped but her clothes were torn off while she was being beaten and assaulted. Hence, they said, stripping wasn't intentional. TOI spoke to the victim, who while weeping over phone, said, "Sarpanch abused me before everyone, dragged me by hair and kicked me on ground, stripping me off my clothes. Nehru is habitual of assaulting people and has boycotted more than 10 people from village and sent many to jail."

Demanding justice, the victim said, "I have already informed police amid threats from sarpanch to withdraw the complaint."

Police had registered FIR against sarpanch. "Sarpanch and two others were arrested and released on bail. If survivor has more to say about assault and being stripped by locals, she has all rights to approach the police," Neha Pandey, Jashpur additional superintendent of police told TOI.
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/raipur/Woman-stripped-in-public-asked-to-pay-Rs-1-lakh-fine/articleshow/34894747.cms?fb_action_ids=10152217627547885&

गुजरात का वाडियाः जहां सजती है देह की मंडी

 बुधवार, 19 मार्च, 2014 को 13:46 IST तक के समाचार
सनीबेन और सोनीबेन
बीते 80 सालों से भी ज़्यादा अरसे से ये रिवाज गुजरात के इस गाँव में बदस्तूर जारी है. इस गाँव में पैदा होने वाली लड़कियां वेश्यावृत्ति के धंधे को अपनाने के लिए एक तरह से अभिशप्त हैं.
तक़रीबन 600 लोगों की आबादी वाले इस गाँव की लड़कियों के लिए देह व्यापार के पेशे में उतरना एक अलिखित नियम सा बन गया है. यह गुजरात के बांसकांठा ज़िले का वाडिया गाँव है. इसे यौनकर्मियों के गाँव के तौर पर जाना जाता है. इस गाँव में पानी का कोई कनेक्शन नहीं है, कुछ ही घरों में बिजली की सुविधा है, स्कूल, बुनियादी स्वास्थ्य सुविधाएँ और सड़कें तक नहीं हैं.
साफ़ सफ़ाई जैसी कोई चीज़ इस गाँव में नहीं दिखाई देती लेकिन ये वो विकास नहीं हैं, जो इस गाँव की औरतें चाहती हैं. वे ऐसी ज़िंदगी की तलबगार हैं जिसमें उन्हें किसी दलाल या ख़रीदार की ज़रूरत न पड़े. वाडिया की औरतों का उस भारत से कोई जुड़ाव नहीं दिखाई देता जिसने हाल की मंगल के लिए एक उपग्रह छोड़ा है.
भारत के विकास की कहानी का इन औरतों के लिए केवल एक ही मतलब है कि अब उनके ज़्यादातर ग्राहक कारों में आते हैं. पिछले साठ सालों से वे यही ज़िदगी जी रही हैं.

तवायफ़ों का गाँव

वाडिया गाँव
गुजरात की राजधानी गाँधीनगर से क़रीब 250 किलोमीटर की दूरी पर स्थित ये वाडिया गाँव बीते कई दशकों से देह व्यापार से जुड़ा हुआ है. गाँव के ज़्यादातर मर्द दलाली करने लगे हैं और कई बार उन्हें अपने परिवार की औरतों के लिए खुलेआम ग्राहकों को फंसाते हुए देखा जा सकता है. इस गाँव के बाशिंदे ज़्यादातर यायावर जनजाति के हैं. इन्हें सरनिया जनजाति कहा जाता है.
माना जाता है कि ये राजस्थान से गुजरात आए थे. सनीबेन भी इस सरनिया जनजाति की हैं. उनकी उम्र कोई 55 साल की होगी और अब वह यौनकर्मी नहीं है. पड़ोस के गांव में छोटे-मोटे काम करके वह अपना गुजारा करती हैं. वह कहती हैं, "मैं तब दस बरस की रही होउंगी जब यौनकर्मी बनी थी. ख़राब स्वास्थ्य और ढलती उम्र की वजह से मैंने यह पेशा अब छोड़ दिया है."
सनीबेन की तरह ही सोनीबेन ने भी उम्र ढल जाने के बाद यह पेशा छोड़ दिया. उन्होंने कहा, "मैं 40 बरस तक सेक्स वर्कर रही. अब मेरी उम्र हो गई है और गुज़ारा करना मुश्किल होता जा रहा है." सनीबेन और सोनीबोन दोनों ही ये कहती हैं कि उनकी माँ और यहाँ तक कि उनकी माँ की माँ ने भी शादी नहीं की थी और इसी पेशे में थीं.

गर्भ निरोध

वाडिया गाँव
सोनीबेन कहती हैं, "वाडिया में कई ऐसे घर थे और अब भी हैं, जहाँ माँ, माँ की माँ और बेटी तीनों के ही ग्राहक एक ही घर में एक ही वक़्त में आते हैं." उन्होंने बताया, "हमारे दिनों में बच्चा गिराना आसान काम नहीं था. इसलिए ज़्यादातर लड़कियों को 11 बरस की उम्र होते-होते बच्चे हो जाते थे लेकिन अब औरतें बिना किसी हिचक के गर्भ निरोधक गोलियाँ लेती हैं और बच्चा गिरवाती भी हैं."
हालांकि सोनीबेन का कहना है, "वाडिया की औरतों के लिए यौनकर्मी बनने के अलावा कोई और उपाय नहीं रहता है. उन्हें कोई काम भी नहीं देता है. अगर कोई काम दे भी देता है तो वह सोचता है कि हम उसे काम के बदले ख़ुद को सौंप देंगे."
रमेशभाई सरनिया की उम्र 40 साल है और वह वाडिया में किराने की एक दुकान चलाते हैं. रमेशभाई के विस्तृत परिवार के कुछ लोग देह व्यापार के पेशे से जुड़े हुए हैं लेकिन उन्होंने ख़ुद को इस पेशे से बाहर कर लिया. रमेशभाई ने किसी अन्य गाँव की एक आदिवासी लड़की से शादी भी की.

स्कूल नहीं

वाडिया गाँव
रमेशभाई कहते हैं, "वाडिया एक प्रतिबंधित नाम है. इस गाँव के बाहर हम में से ज़्यादातर लोग कभी यह नहीं कहते कि हम वाडिया से हैं नहीं तो लोग हमें नीची नज़र से देखेंगे. अगर आज कोई औरत अपने बच्चों ख़ासकर बेटियों की बेहतर ज़िंदगी की ख़्वाहिश रखती भी हैं तो उसके पास कोई विकल्प नहीं होता है."
वह बताते हैं, "वहाँ शादी जैसी कोई परंपरा नहीं है. कोई अपने बाप का नाम नहीं जानता. ज़्यादातर लड़कियों का जन्म ही सेक्स वर्कर बनने के लिए होता है और मर्द दलाल बन जाते हैं. वाडिया के किसी बाशिंदे को कोई नौकरी तक नहीं देता है." रमेशभाई की तीन बेटियाँ और दो बेटे हैं. उन्होंने अपने बड़े बेटे को स्कूल भेजा लेकिन बेटियों को नहीं.
उनका कहना है, "कुछ गिने चुने परिवारों ने यह तय किया कि वे अपनी बेटियों को देह व्यापार में नहीं जाने देंगे. वे कभी भी अपनी बेटियों को नज़र से दूर नहीं करते, यहाँ तक कि स्कूल भी नहीं भेजते. गाँव में सक्रिय दलालों से ख़तरे की भी आशंका रहती है. सुरक्षा कारणों से मैं अपनी बेटियों को स्कूल तक जाने की इजाज़त नहीं दे सकता. वे केवल शादी के बाद ही घर से बाहर जा पाएंगी."

अग़वा का डर

वाडिया गाँव
रमेशभाई को हाल ही में नया गुर्दा लगाया गया है. उनकी पत्नी ने उन्हें किडनी दी है. रमेशभाई की तरह ही वाडिया गाँव में 13 से 15 परिवार ऐसे हैं जो कि देह व्यापार के पेशे में अपनी बेटियों को नहीं भेजते हैं. हालांकि गाँव की कई लड़कियों ने प्राइमरी स्कूल तक की तालीम हासिल की है लेकिन वाडिया में ऐसी कोई भी लड़की नहीं है जिसने छठी के बाद स्कूल देखा हो.
क्योंकि कोई भी माँ-बाप अपनी बेटी को गाँव के बाहर इस डर से नहीं भेजना चाहते हैं कि कहीं दलाल उनकी बेटी को अग़वा न कर ले. ऐसा लगता है कि जैसे वाडिया को किसी की परवाह नहीं है. वाडिया की यौनकर्मियों के ख़रीदार समाज के सभी वर्गों से आते हैं. इनमें मुंबई से लेकर अहमदाबाद तक के कारोबारी हैं, पास के गाँवों के ज़मींदार हैं तो राजनेता भी और सरकारी अफ़सर भी.
वाडिया गाँव का ये पेशा राज्य सरकार की नाक के नीचे फलता फूलता रहा है. इस गाँव में एक पुलिस चौकी भी है लेकिन कोई पुलिसकर्मी शायद ही कभी यहाँ दिखाई देता है. हालांकि कुछ ग़ैर सरकारी संगठनों के अलावा शायद ही किसी ने वाडिया और उसकी औरतों के लिए सहानुभूति दिखाई हो.

सामाजिक समस्या

वाडिया गाँव
बांसकांठा के पुलिस अधीक्षक अशोक कुमार यादव कहते हैं, "जब भी हमें ये ख़बर मिली कि गाँव में कोई देह व्यापार कर रहा है तो हमने वहाँ छापा मारा. लेकिन इसके बावजूद हम वहाँ वेश्यावृत्ति को पूरी तरह से नहीं रोक पाए हैं क्योंकि यह एक सामाजिक समस्या है. ज़्यादातर परिवार अपनी लड़कियों को इस पेशे में भेजते रहे हैं."
हालांकि स्थानीय लोगों का कहना है कि पुलिस की निगरानी बढ़ी है लेकिन दलालों और मानव तस्करों पर लगाम नहीं लगाई गई है. स्थानीय लोग बताते हैं कि ज़्यादातर गाँव वालों को पता होता है कि पुलिस कब आने वाली है और इन छापों का कोई नतीजा नहीं निकलता.
देह व्यापार में कमी के दावों को ख़ारिज करते हुए पड़ोस के गाँव में अस्पताल चलाने वाले एक डॉक्टर बताते हैं कि उनके पास कम उम्र की कई ऐसी लड़कियाँ और औरतें गर्भपात करवाने या फिर गुप्तांगों पर आई चोट की तकलीफ का निदान करवाने आती हैं. डॉक्टर ने अपना नाम न ज़ाहिर करने की शर्त पर बताया कि उसने किशोर उम्र की लड़कियों को गर्भपात कराने में मदद की है.

लिंग परीक्षण

वाडिया गाँव
वह कहते हैं, "गर्भपात के लिए आई कई लड़कियों की हालत बेहद नाज़ुक होती हैं क्योंकि वे गर्भ ठहर जाने के बाद भी यौन संबंध बनाती रहती हैं. मैं जानता हूँ कि जो मैं कर रहा हूँ वो अनैतिक है लेकिन इस गाँव में कई लड़कियाँ डॉक्टरी इलाज के अभाव में मर जाती हैं."
डॉक्टर ने बताया कि दलाल कई बार इस बात पर ज़ोर देते हैं और कई बार तो धमकाते भी हैं कि मैं बच्चे के लिंग की जाँच करूं और अगर वो बेटी हो तो उसका गर्भपात न किया जाए.
उन्होंने कहा, "वे ये नहीं समझते कि एक 11 साल की लड़की बच्चे को जन्म नहीं दे सकती लेकिन उनके लिए एक लड़की आमदनी का केवल एक ज़रिया भर होती है. इसलिए मैं गर्भ में पल रहे बच्चे के लिंग के बारे में बता देता हूँ."
देह व्यापार से जुड़ी औरतों के लिए काम करने वाले ग़ैर सरकारी संगठन 'विचर्त समुदाय समर्पण मंच' से जुड़ी मितल पटेल कहती हैं कि किसी भी सरकारी एजेंसी ने वाडिया गाँव के लोगों के लिए सहानुभूति नहीं रखी. मुझे लगता है कि यह उनके हित में है कि वाडिया के लोगों के हालात वैसे ही बने रहें.
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